The idea of family therapy may seem intimidating, especially if you've never been to therapy before. But many families find that having an impartial, empathic presence helps them work through issues that were keeping them feeling stuck or resentful. Therapists value working with the entire family unit. Family therapy offers families support with the following issues:
Boundary clarification: Boundaries refer to the implicit or explicit limits set by a person. Poor boundaries lay the foundation for family conflict. When family roles are overly rigid - or overly loose - people may feel bombarded, unsupported, or misunderstood. It's especially important for parents to clearly state (and implement) their boundaries to their children.
Adjusting to new life transitions: Big changes like new jobs, homes, and babies can all be exciting, but they also represent significant sources of stress to a family system. Therapy offers a supportive environment for everyone to learn how to cope with these adjustments.
Support for child and adolescent mental health problems: If you feel lost with your child, some of the solutions may actually exist within your current family environment. Compassionate family interventions focus on how everyone can come together to improve a child's mental health.
Skills in healthy conflict resolution: When family members interact with hostility or aggression, the entire family system can feel unsafe. Conflict resolution isn't about the absence of conflict. Instead, it's about practicing more emotion regulation, improving how families speak to each other, and managing difficult issues respectfully.
Parenting skills: Parents generally have the best intentions when it comes to their kids, but some of their strategies may jeopardize the integrity of certain family dynamics. A family therapist can teach appropriate parenting skills designed to best support the entire family unit.